So many times people ask me why I offer boudoir sessions. Well I think it's time for me to explain.
For longest time, if you had asked me why I do boudoir sessions, it was because I wanted women to feel empowered. Several weeks ago, my answer changed.
Do I still want women to feel empowered? Absolutely without a doubt!
But something changed for me one night when I was out with some friends. One of them asked why I love boudoir and I went to give my "standard" answer. Before I finished my sentence, she looked at me and said "bullshit!" Bullshit?
My first thought was who the hell do you think you are to tell me why I want to do boudoir? But then she said something that completely changed everything I thought I knew.
After she, rudely, interrupted me lol, she finished her thought. She looked me dead in the eye and said "Katy, you have low self esteem. You shoot boudoir because you don't feel pretty and you don't want other women to feel that. You want them to feel pretty."
By golly, she stopped me in my tracks with those words.
She was right. I do have low self esteem. As most women do.
When we look at ourselves, we see all of our flaws. All the things, big or small, that we want to change.
But I want you to think of something. God doesn't make mistakes. Yes having children, getting older, health issues, it all changes us.
But that is okay!! Why?
BECAUSE WE ARE STILL BEAUTIFUL!!!
So forget about the stretch marks, forget about needing/wanting to lose weight. Forget about your fears. Book that damn session and let's show you how truly gorgeous you are girl!